Saturday, July 28, 2012

"Sorry"

We often come across a word for an apology, 'Sorry'. What does this 5 alphabet words means???
Do we really realize it??
Actually when someone commits a mistake, 'sorry' is used to indicate that he/she has realized his/her mistake and seeks forgiveness. But today, with respect to this word, there are mainly 3 types of people.
1) Those who even after realizing their mistake, don't feel like saying this word. These people think they can't be wrong, there are superiors; why should they say sorry. They just are flying in the seventh heaven.
2) Those who don't realize the worth of this word and just keep on saying very frequently. They don't improve but keep on committing mistakes ;may be intentionally or unintentionally ,thinking that , they would just say sorry in the end.
3)Those who really mean this word and realize the worth. They actually feel sorry and realize their mistake , promising that this won't be repeated in future in any case. These are the people who understands the importance of saying sorry and don't make this word neither so cheap; to be used frequently, nor so expensive; to be never used.

So you can judge yourself, where you stand and where you want yourself to be taken. Decision is all yours.

Tuesday, June 26, 2012

Independent ???

Dependent or independent?
Are you dependent or independent?
Everyone will say independent and 80% don't know the reason for it. They say this just it looks cool with the personality. People never realize, even if they say they are independent,they aren't. They are dependent somewhere, on someone ,to some extent. Lets take example of leaves.
I wrote a quote, that says, "broken leaves have the advantage over the green leaves that they could fly anywhere with the wind" but even after getting detached from the green leaves they aren't independent, they have to depend on the wind to go somewhere to the heights or to die on ground. People can be independent only if they kill their desire, their lust and in this world, it is impossible to achieve. Its not wrong to say that human nature somewhat matches with a parasite. I know its hard to accept but is true.

But sometimes in life, taking some decisions, we have to be independent, we have to take up responsibilities, we have to think what are pros and cons of the decision, who and what will be affected. And to take an apt decision (what we really wants) , we need to be independent , free from any sort of compulsions or dependency.